Keeping
Your Family Safe
In This Edtion
School
Safety:
There are students
across our nation who are living with the fear of school violence.
There are also students who are involved in finding solutions
to this perplexing problem. Students at the Marharishi School
in Iowa have founded an organization, End School Violence
Now, that is offering a solution which has been scientifically
proven (many times) to reduce the root cause of violence.
End School Violence
Now can help prevent future occurrences of violence as well
as help students deal with it after it happens. End School
Violence Now was able to help students in Columbine, Colorado
when they met at PeaceQuest 2000: a Youth Summit in February.
Chapters of this organization are growing across the nation
in schools that are open to trying the approach, which relies
on Transcendental Meditation techniques.
There is a $12.95
video available with a press packet that offers testimonials
from educators nationwide, from inner-city schools to wealthy
suburban environments, and includes research on how this program
works. To order and to learn more about the End School Violence
Now organization, visit their website at http://www.endschoolviolencenow.org/.
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Personal
Safety:
It is only common
sense that children thrive in homes that are safe, and if
a parent is in danger then the child is at risk, whether physically
or emotionally. "Every single day, 5,000 women become victims
of domestic violence. And their most powerful weapon against
this atrocity may be sitting right in your own home -- waiting
to make a difference," says Susan Sarandon, a spokesperson
for the "CALL to PROTECT" nationwide campaign.
Your used cellular
phone can save the life of a person at risk of violence. When
you donate a used cellular phone, regardless of its condition
or age, it will be re-conditioned and programmed to dial only
911, and a shelter's number. These phones are given to victims
of violence who are in danger, without charge and with free
emergency calling. They often then feel able to risk leaving
their homes, to feel safe enough to pick up their children
at school or go to the grocery store. Contact http://www.donateaphone.com or http://www.wirelessfoundation.com for more information.
Questions
from Readers, Answers from Experts:
Q: I am worried about my ex-spouse trying to pick up my son from
summer day camp. I cannot tell the camp director that no one
but me can pick him up because I sometimes need to work late
unexpectedly and a friend will have to pick him up. How can
I help prevent any problems?
A: First, ask them what their pick-up policy is, as many camps
and day care centers now have formal procedures. Then, be
sure the camp director and your son's counselors are aware
that there is a problem with your ex-spouse. Show them a photo
of your ex-spouse. It is not unreasonable to request that
anyone (other than you) who tries to take your child home
show a picture id, and that their name be on an approved-for-pick-up
list that you would provide.
Also, some camps
issue matching identification cards to the camper and the
parent so that whoever is coming to pick the child up must
have the proper camp-issued identification pass.
The key with these
safety techniques is that the camp counselor must be aware
of the seriousness of the situation so that they aren't intimidated
if an older adult objects to showing identification. Parents
often smile and say something like, "Oh, see, he knows me!
It's really okay," or even "I left it in the car but I really
am his aunt...." A camp counselor needs to be able to respond
that the procedure needs to be complied with, and be empowered
to seek the director for assistance.
Also, your child
should know that if you really sent someone else to pick him
up that that person would know the "secret code word" that
you and your child share.
Q: Are children living in homes located close to schoolyards
in greater danger from lurking predators than children a few
blocks away?
A: If you have any verifiable information to answer this question,
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Statistics:
Violent Deaths
at School
Number of children
and adults who died nationwide on public or private K-12 school
property or at school-sponsored events by any violent method,
such as murder or suicide.
School Year 1992-3
= 55
School Year 1993-4 = 51
School Year 1994-5 = 20
School Year 1995-6 = 35
School Year 1996-7 = 25
School Year 1997-8 = 43
School Year 1998-9 = 26
Source: Justice
Dept. of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency: National School
Safety Center. Report available at http://www.cjcj.org/schoolhousehype/shh2.html.
Open
to Discussion One Opinion:
Source: AP news
articles
The U.S. government
needs to respond more aggressively to the overseas abduction
of American children because in only about 24 percent of the
cases are the children returned or able to have visits from
their "left behind" parents, according to a congressional
report. There are over 1,000 international abduction cases
per year.
The Hague Convention
calls for abducted children to be returned to their place
of habitual residence. It is generally agreed that the United
States tries hard to repatriate abducted children who end
up on American soil, but numerous foreign countries don't
reciprocate, and their laws make it very challenging to enforce
U. S. criminal laws.
This is a situation
that requires more attention on the national level from our
Congress and our government agencies. There is inadequate
financial assistance to offset the expenses of a left-behind
parent's costs, such as travel abroad, retaining a lawyer,
and other fees.
To learn more about
this topic, visit http://www.apbnews.com/newscenter/missing/stories/2000/02/10/
abductions0210_01.html .
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Archive
2007
January
2006 in Review
February
Turning a Negative into a Positive
March
youtube.com and your kids
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2006
January
Teens
and alcohol abuse
March
Are social networking sites safe?
April
Identity Theft - Not Just for Adults
May
Teens, Television & Sex - What's the Connection?
July
The Growing Problem of Gangs August
The Case For – And Against Cell Phones for Children October
School Safety Revisited
November
Rhode Island Named Safest U.S. State – How Does Your State Measure Up?
December
The Great Cell Phone Debate
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2005
January
Teens
and alcohol abuse
February
Hospital
and new safety precautions with newborns
March
Check
List for bikes, helmets, rollerblades and more safety
April
Finding
a babysitter and other tips!
May
Is
your Child ready for Summer camp? Other great summer camp tips!
July
Fireworks
safety, handling and hazards
August
How
safe it the Resort babysitter? Tips for parents on vacation.
October
Hurricane
Katrina and the children effected
November
Repeat
of October 2005
December
Video
game industry and violent/sexual games geared to your children |
2004
January
Skiing
Safety Tips for your and your kids!
February
Teens
and Driving
March
Cyber
bulling, The Carlie Brucia Story, Children and the Internet
April
School
Trips; The Internet, Your Kids and You; Helmets and Safety
July
Voice
Recognition Technology
October
Halloween
Safety Tips and Statistics
November
Holiday
Travel Safety and Tips
December
Holiday
Shopping Safety Tips |
2003
February
Virtual
Crimes, National Youth Anti-Drug Campaign, Teens and Tobacco and Interviewing
Abused Children
March
Singing for Safety, Seeds of Peace, Mental Health of Youths, Developing
Informed & Active Young Citizens
June
Choosing
a Summer Camp, Summer Camp Safety Tips
July
Dangers
of Fireworks, Keeping backyard pools safe
August
Safety
at Carnivals and Fairs
September
Back
to school reminder, High School students and Hazing, School Security, Being prepared
in a Blackout
October
Halloween
Reminders for Parents, Alternatives to the Traditional Trick-or-Treat Ritual,
Halloween Facts & Figures, Crossing the like Between Fun and Danger
November
Cell
Phones In School: Changing Perceptions, Cell Phones and Distraction in School,
Cell phones |
2002
March
Amber
Plan, Know your way home, Childcare at Resorts
July
same
as March
August
Post
Viral Fatigue Syndrome, Teach the risks of Drug Abuse, Discipline |
2001
February
Diversity
and Children, Coping with a Bully, Finding a Missing Child
March
Gang Violence in Schools, Children and Lies & What
your children learn from music
April
Teaching Discrimination, Buddy System & Should Toy Guns
be Allowed in School?
May
Campus Safety, Pool Safety, When Parental Abductions Occur, & Family
Rest Rooms
June
School/Camp Release Procedures, Neighbor Hood Summer Safety, Letting children
stay home alone, Runaway Teens, Parents and trusting gut feelings
July
Trust with your children, Knowing where your teens hang out, When big kids
hang out with younger kids, Communities creating events for teens
August
Teen Parties, Being Organized Helps in Emergencies, What to do to help
missing children, Helping kids surf the internet
September
Hosting your Teen’s Party, Teaching Tolerance Grant
Funds, The Younger American Act
October
September 11, 2001 and the effects on children in school and at home
November
Volunteering
in your community, Emergency Evacuation Drills, Children and Self Defense,
Suicide vs Homicide & working with our community |
2000
April
School Internet Safety, Important Numbers your Child should
know, Q&A
May
College Campus Bike Patrol, Protecting Infants and Toddlers
in Day Care, Fearing Fake Cops & Teachers as Advocates
June
School Violence, Safety at Camp Pick UP, Donate Cell
phones for victims of violence & International Abductions
July
School Violence, Parents Internet Safety, Abduction Safety
for Your Newborn Baby & what should you do if you see a child alone?
August
School Bus Safety, Car Seat Safety & using the WHALE
Program & Help Reduce Violence in Youth Sports
September
Walking and Talking to Strangers, Internet Patrol Volunteers & Child
Abuse Statistics
October
Playground Safety, Appropriate Teachers Aide Behavior
November
National Runaway Prevention Week, Talking about Guns with
your kids, Teen Babysitter Safety, Sensory Integration Disorders
December
Profiling Students and Violence, Children and Holidays,
Shopping Mall Fears and Safety & Violent Child Tantrums |
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