Keeping
Your Family Safe
In This Edition
School
Safety Tip:
A fall from as little as one foot high onto
asphalt, or from four feet high onto packed grass, can be fatal,
according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. When there
is too little "cushion" under playground equipment, there is
potentially fatal danger. Who is checking your school's playground?
Take a moment today to notice, and do not hesitate to bring
this issue to the administration for prompt action if you see
that the playground does not meet basic safety standards. Look
for the following to ensure the safest possible surfaces on
a playground:
Sand (10 inches deep)
Wood
chips (12 inches deep)
Rubber outdoor
mat (follow manufacturer's instructions)
"Each year about 250,000 children
ages 15 and younger get hurt on playground equipment and are
treated for their injuries in emergency rooms. Between 10 and
20 children die each year from playground injuries. About one-fourth
of all playground injuries happen on home equipment, but most
occur at school and public playgrounds. Falls cause about 75%
of playground injuries."*
When choosing
which type of surface, consider that no surface is ideal. You
need to select those that best meet your needs, and not neglect
the upkeep. While sand offers a nice cushion, it also is liable
to attract cats and other litter. Sand is also not a good choice
if the children are young enough to be throwing it. Small stones
can end up in children's ears, but otherwise make a good choice.
Rubber surfaces can be expensive. Mulch needs to be good quality
to prevent splinters.
A mulch, stone,
gravel, or sand covering needs to be raked into place frequently,
and replaced when it eventually wears thin. Don't ignore the
"worn" spots on a playground - that is where the greatest danger
lies.
* Footnote from and for more information visit http://www.aap.org/family/playgrd.htm#safer or write for the Handbook for Public Playground Safety, US
Consumer Product Safety Commission, Washington, D.C. 20207.
Personal
Safety:
Parents who are feeling at wits' end with the challenge of
disciplining their child may wish to contact Parents Anonymous
for supportive suggestions. By recognizing your growing frustration
and reaching out for help, you may well prevent yourself from
exploding with frustration in a way which may harm your child.
Call 1 -800- THE KIDS and find out that you are not alone
in feeling at the end of your rope with a child you love.
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Questions From Readers and Our Answers:
Q: Is it appropriate for my 10 year-old's classroom
assistant to be joking with the children about their buttocks?
Certainly 10 year-olds will make these kinds of jokes between
themselves, but it is appropriate for the teacher's aide to
be joining in and sharing these jokes?
A:It is not professional. Therefore, it is not
appropriate. Is it immoral? That is more difficult to determine.
The gray area of where an adult needs to draw the line and
not participate in any behavior which could be construed as
detrimental to a child's development seems to fluctuate depending
on the situation. For example, if a child's uncle is sharing
a silly flatulence joke at the family's picnic, that is seems
safe enough. But when serving in a professional situation,
it is not so clear if buttocks jokes are harmful to the child.
Certainly, it undermines the authority of the adult, and in
a small way may influence a child's losing a sense of adult
protection. One also wonders where the silliness may turn
into a more predatory relationship, and care should be taken
to stay alert to the dynamics between the children and that
adult. You should mention this issue to the aide's supervisor
as well.
Q: Are children living in homes located close
to schoolyards in greater danger from lurking predators than
children a few blocks away?
A: If you have any verifiable information to answer
this question, wed like to hear your response. Please
click here to contact us. Watch here to learn what we find
out. If You Have A Question or Answer, Let Us Know. E-Mail
Statistics:
"Shootings are the most common cause of violent
death in schools, and while school shootings have declined in
recent years, they are now more likely to result in multiple
killings than they were in the early 1990s" - Washington Post,
April 16, 2000.  
"In the last eight years,
267 individuals have lost their lives because of school related
violence. Of these, 206 (77%) were due to gun violence."
Source: http://www.csgv.org/content/resources/resc_studies_school_violence.html
"More than half of the guns that criminals use are purchased
from federally licensed dealers using gun traffickers."
Source: http://www.csgv.org/content/resources/resc_dyk.html
Open
to Discussion One Opinion
Those employed in child protective services may want to consider
the innovative team approach that is being implemented in
some parts of the country in order to relieve the stress of
multiple interviews on young victims.
Investigations of sexual abuse allegations may be less traumatic
for a young victim if a coalition of law enforcement, medical,
mental health, and social service representatives interview
the victim at one time. Care must be taken not to overwhelm
a young child; meet in an informal situation, not a boardroom
with a big scary panel facing the child.
This approach also gives professionals the opportunity to
receive immediate feedback from each other. Enough evidence
may be gathered to substantiate allegations and help determine
the how the prosecution may proceed, without making the victim
endure repeated interviews.
It is important that counseling is offered to the victim and
his or her family after the investigative interview.
**NOTE
FROM THE EDITOR**
The following ACTION ALERT was submitted by a Kidsafenewz
reader. While we at Fingerprint America condemn all forms
of domestic violence or crimes against women and children,
our role is to provide tools for parents to keep their families
safe. Inclusion of reader submissions regarding political
efforts does not imply endorsement.
-ed.
ACTION ALERT:
As of September 25, 2000 -
The Violence Against Women Act is in danger of expiring, causing
thousands of women and children to live in danger. This legislation
is needed to continue the progress made in fighting domestic
violence that has happened since the federal government had
implemented this legislation. While there is strong support
for this legislation, no one can even vote for it since the
leaders of the House and the Senate are holding it up while
they use it negotiate for their special interests. Please,
call them and urge them to let this bill come to the floor
for a vote NOW, as Congress recesses very soon! If this bills
dies, so could someone's parent.
When you call, you simply need to tell them you support VAWA,
and leave your name and address. To learn more, visit http://www.stopfamilyviolence.org.
Call Senator Trent Lott's office at 1-202-224-3135 (bill S.
2787)
Call House Speaker Dennis Hasert's office at 1-202-225-0600
(bill H.R. 1248)
Whats Your Opinion? E-Mail
Learn more by visiting
Dr. Jim Hopper's site at http://www.jimhopper.com/abstats/ and the Pandora's Box site that has much information on the
topic of sex abuse at http://www.prevent-abuse-now.com/sitemap.htm.
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Your Opinion? E-Mail
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January
2006 in Review
February
Turning a Negative into a Positive
March
youtube.com and your kids
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2006
January
Teens
and alcohol abuse
March
Are social networking sites safe?
April
Identity Theft - Not Just for Adults
May
Teens, Television & Sex - What's the Connection?
July
The Growing Problem of Gangs August
The Case For – And Against Cell Phones for Children October
School Safety Revisited
November
Rhode Island Named Safest U.S. State – How Does Your State Measure Up?
December
The Great Cell Phone Debate
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2005
January
Teens
and alcohol abuse
February
Hospital
and new safety precautions with newborns
March
Check
List for bikes, helmets, rollerblades and more safety
April
Finding
a babysitter and other tips!
May
Is
your Child ready for Summer camp? Other great summer camp tips!
July
Fireworks
safety, handling and hazards
August
How
safe it the Resort babysitter? Tips for parents on vacation.
October
Hurricane
Katrina and the children effected
November
Repeat
of October 2005
December
Video
game industry and violent/sexual games geared to your children |
2004
January
Skiing
Safety Tips for your and your kids!
February
Teens
and Driving
March
Cyber
bulling, The Carlie Brucia Story, Children and the Internet
April
School
Trips; The Internet, Your Kids and You; Helmets and Safety
July
Voice
Recognition Technology
October
Halloween
Safety Tips and Statistics
November
Holiday
Travel Safety and Tips
December
Holiday
Shopping Safety Tips |
2003
February
Virtual
Crimes, National Youth Anti-Drug Campaign, Teens and Tobacco and Interviewing
Abused Children
March
Singing for Safety, Seeds of Peace, Mental Health of Youths, Developing
Informed & Active Young Citizens
June
Choosing
a Summer Camp, Summer Camp Safety Tips
July
Dangers
of Fireworks, Keeping backyard pools safe
August
Safety
at Carnivals and Fairs
September
Back
to school reminder, High School students and Hazing, School Security, Being prepared
in a Blackout
October
Halloween
Reminders for Parents, Alternatives to the Traditional Trick-or-Treat Ritual,
Halloween Facts & Figures, Crossing the like Between Fun and Danger
November
Cell
Phones In School: Changing Perceptions, Cell Phones and Distraction in School,
Cell phones |
2002
March
Amber
Plan, Know your way home, Childcare at Resorts
July
same
as March
August
Post
Viral Fatigue Syndrome, Teach the risks of Drug Abuse, Discipline |
2001
February
Diversity
and Children, Coping with a Bully, Finding a Missing Child
March
Gang Violence in Schools, Children and Lies & What
your children learn from music
April
Teaching Discrimination, Buddy System & Should Toy Guns
be Allowed in School?
May
Campus Safety, Pool Safety, When Parental Abductions Occur, & Family
Rest Rooms
June
School/Camp Release Procedures, Neighbor Hood Summer Safety, Letting children
stay home alone, Runaway Teens, Parents and trusting gut feelings
July
Trust with your children, Knowing where your teens hang out, When big kids
hang out with younger kids, Communities creating events for teens
August
Teen Parties, Being Organized Helps in Emergencies, What to do to help
missing children, Helping kids surf the internet
September
Hosting your Teen’s Party, Teaching Tolerance Grant
Funds, The Younger American Act
October
September 11, 2001 and the effects on children in school and at home
November
Volunteering
in your community, Emergency Evacuation Drills, Children and Self Defense,
Suicide vs Homicide & working with our community |
2000
April
School Internet Safety, Important Numbers your Child should
know, Q&A
May
College Campus Bike Patrol, Protecting Infants and Toddlers
in Day Care, Fearing Fake Cops & Teachers as Advocates
June
School Violence, Safety at Camp Pick UP, Donate Cell
phones for victims of violence & International Abductions
July
School Violence, Parents Internet Safety, Abduction Safety
for Your Newborn Baby & what should you do if you see a child alone?
August
School Bus Safety, Car Seat Safety & using the WHALE
Program & Help Reduce Violence in Youth Sports
September
Walking and Talking to Strangers, Internet Patrol Volunteers & Child
Abuse Statistics
October
Playground Safety, Appropriate Teachers Aide Behavior
November
National Runaway Prevention Week, Talking about Guns with
your kids, Teen Babysitter Safety, Sensory Integration Disorders
December
Profiling Students and Violence, Children and Holidays,
Shopping Mall Fears and Safety & Violent Child Tantrums |
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