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Online Safety:
There has been much written in recent weeks about teen-oriented websites such as www.myspace.com and www.livejournal.com. Although touted as a "place for friends", there is growing concern that the contacts taking place within these so-called "social networking" sites transcend those found in a typical friendship.
Among the concerns voiced by parents, educators and law enforcement officials is that the sites' young users are providing far too much private information. Each MySpace user is prompted to build their profiles with personal data such as full name, hometown and the school they attend making it far easier for predators to befriend a potential victim. Even worse is that the site encourages teens to post photographs of themselves. And if that weren't bad enough, users often also use the site's comments feature to make plans with friends, providing specific details about where they will be and when they will be there. Oh, and did we mention that pornography sites advertise on MySpace?
Yet despite these dangers, the site has over 50 million users, causing growing concern that the incidence of violent acts against teens will rise.
For their part, the folks at MySpace prohibit teens under the age of 14 from using the site and they have recently announced that they are considering restricting access to certain areas of the site to users over the age of 18. While this is a good and necessary step, we all know that setting age restrictions is relatively futile, particularly when a child's Internet activity isn't closely monitored by parents.
How dangerous is this site? Last month, a 26 year-old California man was arrested and charged with felony child molestation against a 14 year-old girl he met on MySpace. In Connecticut, as many as seven girls ages 12-16 recently claimed that they were molested by men they met through MySpace.
Fortunately, educators in several states have recognized the potential dangers found in sites such as MySpace and are taking steps to limit teensí access to these types of sites during school hours.
For example in Rhode Island, education officials estimate that 80% of their schools have filters in place which prohibit students from accessing these sites from school computers. Filters have also been installed in many Florida schools and legislation allowing them to be installed in schools throughout several other states is currently pending.
While measures such installing filters in schools is a terrific first step, there is still much more to be done in order to keep our kids safe. Given the fact that regardless of the obstacles placed before them teens will always find a way to get online and visit these social networking sites, the focus needs to shift from prevention to promoting safe usage.
In response to the increasing concern over the safety of these social networking sites, many have included information regarding safe usage; MySpace offers safety tips for both users and parents. Additionally, the site has plans to launch a series of safety tutorials that will help teens understand the importance of safe online communication.
Meanwhile, government authorities and child-safety advocacy groups all around the country are working hard to make social networking sites such as MySpace safer for our kids. Connecticut Attorney General Richard Blumenthal is one official who advocates stricter controls. In fact, according to this recent BusinessWeek article, he has been working in recent weeks with MySpace CEO Chris DeWolfe to identify specific measures which can lead to ìgreater policing, stronger verification of age limits and measures to filter out pornography. While there is no set timetable for the identification and implementation of these changes, it certainly sounds as though positive progress is being made.
Meanwhile, if you suspect your teenage is using sites such as MySpace, you should take the time to read both the Safety Tips and Tips for Parents sections which are linked at the bottom of the home page. You should also make your teenager read this information as a condition for being able to use the site. Let your teenager know that you will periodically monitor their profile and that the discovery of any objectionable material will result in the loss of Internet privileges. Remember, while your teenager may think you are the worst parent in the world, chances are you wonít be alone.
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2007
January
2006 in Review
February
Turning a Negative into a Positive
March
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2006
January
Teens
and alcohol abuse
March
Are social networking sites safe?
April
Identity Theft - Not Just for Adults
May
Teens, Television & Sex - What's the Connection?
July
The Growing Problem of Gangs August
The Case For – And Against Cell Phones for Children October
School Safety Revisited
November
Rhode Island Named Safest U.S. State – How Does Your State Measure Up?
December
The Great Cell Phone Debate
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2005
January
Teens
and alcohol abuse
February
Hospital
and new safety precautions with newborns
March
Check
List for bikes, helmets, rollerblades and more safety
April
Finding
a babysitter and other tips!
May
Is
your Child ready for Summer camp? Other great summer camp tips!
July
Fireworks
safety, handling and hazards
August
How
safe it the Resort babysitter? Tips for parents on vacation.
October
Hurricane
Katrina and the children effected
November
Repeat
of October 2005
December
Video
game industry and violent/sexual games geared to your children |
2004
January
Skiing
Safety Tips for your and your kids!
February
Teens
and Driving
March
Cyber
bulling, The Carlie Brucia Story, Children and the Internet
April
School
Trips; The Internet, Your Kids and You; Helmets and Safety
July
Voice
Recognition Technology
October
Halloween
Safety Tips and Statistics
November
Holiday
Travel Safety and Tips
December
Holiday
Shopping Safety Tips |
2003
February
Virtual
Crimes, National Youth Anti-Drug Campaign, Teens and Tobacco and Interviewing
Abused Children
March
Singing for Safety, Seeds of Peace, Mental Health of Youths, Developing
Informed & Active Young Citizens
June
Choosing
a Summer Camp, Summer Camp Safety Tips
July
Dangers
of Fireworks, Keeping backyard pools safe
August
Safety
at Carnivals and Fairs
September
Back
to school reminder, High School students and Hazing, School Security, Being prepared
in a Blackout
October
Halloween
Reminders for Parents, Alternatives to the Traditional Trick-or-Treat Ritual,
Halloween Facts & Figures, Crossing the like Between Fun and Danger
November
Cell
Phones In School: Changing Perceptions, Cell Phones and Distraction in School,
Cell phones |
2002
March
Amber
Plan, Know your way home, Childcare at Resorts
July
same
as March
August
Post
Viral Fatigue Syndrome, Teach the risks of Drug Abuse, Discipline |
2001
February
Diversity
and Children, Coping with a Bully, Finding a Missing Child
March
Gang Violence in Schools, Children and Lies & What
your children learn from music
April
Teaching Discrimination, Buddy System & Should Toy Guns
be Allowed in School?
May
Campus Safety, Pool Safety, When Parental Abductions Occur, & Family
Rest Rooms
June
School/Camp Release Procedures, Neighbor Hood Summer Safety, Letting children
stay home alone, Runaway Teens, Parents and trusting gut feelings
July
Trust with your children, Knowing where your teens hang out, When big kids
hang out with younger kids, Communities creating events for teens
August
Teen Parties, Being Organized Helps in Emergencies, What to do to help
missing children, Helping kids surf the internet
September
Hosting your Teen’s Party, Teaching Tolerance Grant
Funds, The Younger American Act
October
September 11, 2001 and the effects on children in school and at home
November
Volunteering
in your community, Emergency Evacuation Drills, Children and Self Defense,
Suicide vs Homicide & working with our community |
2000
April
School Internet Safety, Important Numbers your Child should
know, Q&A
May
College Campus Bike Patrol, Protecting Infants and Toddlers
in Day Care, Fearing Fake Cops & Teachers as Advocates
June
School Violence, Safety at Camp Pick UP, Donate Cell
phones for victims of violence & International Abductions
July
School Violence, Parents Internet Safety, Abduction Safety
for Your Newborn Baby & what should you do if you see a child alone?
August
School Bus Safety, Car Seat Safety & using the WHALE
Program & Help Reduce Violence in Youth Sports
September
Walking and Talking to Strangers, Internet Patrol Volunteers & Child
Abuse Statistics
October
Playground Safety, Appropriate Teachers Aide Behavior
November
National Runaway Prevention Week, Talking about Guns with
your kids, Teen Babysitter Safety, Sensory Integration Disorders
December
Profiling Students and Violence, Children and Holidays,
Shopping Mall Fears and Safety & Violent Child Tantrums |
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